The glorious world of coaching and entrepreneurship is bursting with oodles and oodles of âblueprints for success.â And while thatâs cute and all when youâre in your maidenhood years, many of these models operate under the assumption of uninterrupted work days, the luxury of infinite energy, and either the expectation to GRIND IT OUT for 60 hours a week or tapping into your feminine flow state and only working when the divine muse of inspiration visits.
LOLZ.
Motherhood operates under a whoooole separate set of laws. It might as well be in a galaxy of its own! Meaning none of the shit that used to work is likely to work now (at least not consistently). The reality is there are now more variables, more unpredictabilities, and far less time and energy to put towards your business (unless you have a machine-like team running the show).
So when things ARE flowing for us, when happen to have the time and space, and when we get a burst of energy we GO FOR IT.
BUT by doing so, we (unknowingly) fall into a steep and dangerous business model trap (Iâve been victim to this MANY a time and didnât even realize what was going on)âŠ
Hereâs a scene you might find familiar: Your family is finally ALL healthy, youâre buzzing from that second-trimester energy, you get a burst of creativityâwhatever it is, youâre (finally) feeling yourself, hooray!
So you decide to revamp your business, design a program with a million bells and whistles, and hey, change the world why youâre at it.
And BOOM! Life happens (whether planned or not). You get the call from nursery that your toddler is puking up their ham and cheese sandwich, your daily routine gets shaken up with a family âvacationâ, your nanny breaks their arm, or itâs just one of those daysâweeks, months, whatevs.
Suddenly, you’re scrambling to keep up with commitments, feeling like a failure, and the business model that once seemed like a dream starts to feel like a nightmare.
Womp womp.
So WTF do you do? How do you stop life from well, life-ing?
Unfortunately, you canât control the stop and starts of mamahood.
But you know what you CAN do?
This isnât just about creating more flexibility in your schedule (although thatâs crucial too!
I’s about:
Ditch The âAll Or Nothingâ Mentality.
Build a business that works with you, not against you. The trick is not about avoiding the stop-starts of mamahood but navigating them with intention.
Reflection Prompts:
Be Real About Your Capacity.
You’re a mama, not a superhero. Don’t try to be everywhere at once. Be honest about your energy levels and design your business (programs, marketing, support, team, etc.) around what you can realistically handle.
For example: Know 1st trimester of pregnancy is gonna zap your energy? Don’t plan a live workshop marathon then!
Action Steps:
Focus on Consistent Delivery.
When I say consistent I donât mean 3x a day or anyyything like that. Unless you feel thatâs within your capacity. Forget the pressure of daily content creation or endless calls. Create a consistent rhythm that you know you can commit toâeven during low-energy and busy seasons.
Action Steps:
Identify The Season Youâre In.
Just like nature, our lives and businesses go through seasons. Identifying and embracing the season you’re in is key to leveraging its unique power. There are certain markers, symptoms, and signs that indicate what season youâre currently in. Knowing how to recognize the season is the first step.
Action Steps:
Harness The Power Of The Seasons Youâre In.
Each season (yes, even Winter!) holds potent magic. Knowing how to strategically harness that power is everything.
Seasons Quickie Overview:
Action Steps:
Motherhood shatters the traditional business success model. It demands a new blueprintâone as adaptable as your six-year-old, as resilient as a rogue mole hair, and fiercely personal.
Throw out those dusty rulebooks (yours, the bro-marketer’s â none of them worked anyway). Instead, it’s time to pencil in your own definition of success. Weâre not gonna etch it in stone and forget it, because motherhood is a constant evolution. Embrace your current truth, but remember, your North Star can shift. The key to thriving is knowing when to pause, strategize, and realign.
This isn’t just about survival (although, there are times when this might be true, and thatâs okay!); it’s about metamorphosis**.** You’re evolving, and through it, constantly redefining what it means to do business on your terms as a mama.
For those ready to really shake things up while building a sustainable model that flexes with the ebbs and flows of mamahood, Iâve got something juuuust for you.
Enter…
AN INTIMATE, RAW, AND EXPANSIVE CIRCLE FOR MAMAS IN THEIR #REBIRTHERA WHO ARE READY FOR THEIR BUSINESS TO MIRROR THE EVOLUTION OF THEIR IDENTITY, VALUES, PRIORITIES, AND GOALS. đȘ
Forget one-size-fits-all. We will craft YOUR unique path to sustainable success that thrives through every season of Mamahood and life.
Thatâs why this is a super intimate space with just a handful of mamas who are ready to SHAKE SHIT UP (but also create sustainability for ALL the seasons and starts and stops mamahood inevitably throws at us).
P.S. There’s a juicy audio waiting for you, revealing how I’m specifically applying this to my own biz through ALL seasons. Get a sneak peek into my strategy!
OhâŠand when you join now youâll get 1:1 Voxer support from me until we kick things off as a group. Soooo we can jam on how this applies to you and your mama-aligned businessâallll before the program starts. Youâre welcome!
Ready to explore the details of the mamamind and whatâs possible when you join us inside? View the experience and apply here.
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